My spin on one of Mary J. Blige's acceptance speeches during tonight's Grammys:
"I don't think you can have a peak if you don't ever have a valley. And it's in the valley when we learn who we really are. And it's on the peaks when we learn who we really are because success exposes who you really are."
... and it's on the peaks when you are happy with who you've become ... or are becoming - even if more valleys lie ahead.